I just discovered these great resources today from Ron Deal and Successful Stepfamilies.  While I have not read them yet, I have read Ron’s first book, The Smart Stepfamily, and it is fantastic.  I have also had the pleasure of hearing him present a message live at a conference, as well as sharing a conversation with him over a meal afterward.  He was the real deal then, and he seems to be growing in his wisdom and effectiveness in blessing and guiding stepfamilies over the years as God continues to guide his steps.  If you need guidance through the rough waters of stepfamily and remarriage life, listen to Ron.  He has something worth hearing.